CharlieDVan
lennonade1964
I don't know what George expected after making Darcy sink into a pit of despair. does he really think that Darcy was just going to shrug it off? George is his brother after all, so I know he probably has a major impact on how Darcy feels. it's a real shame that Darcy is going in the spiral, he needs to really be helped by Monroe but him not accepting help is exactly the reason why his problem will persist.
lennonade1964
it makes no damn sense he would refuse her help. he used to be open, he was honest about himself. he created a bond where they both dealt with it. and now he acts like he doesn't need her one bit. he thinks he is helping but he's pushing her away. making her think negative thoughts and making her mind go astray. she's worried that he is going to cheat. or worse act like Dave used to be. and really it does not a single bit of good. in icing her out and not letting her help like he should.
lennonade1964
I feel so much sadder Darcy is starting to lie. these stories he's spinning are just not alright. if he's not careful, he will lose Monroe. the lies will not save her, he hurt her more than he knows. when that truth comes out it will be a bombshell. The fallout that happens will hurt worse than hell.
lennonade1964
@lennonade1964: I also don't trust that George is around. I really wish that he would just leave town. I really don't care what his reason is. it doesn't justifying getting his brother hooked on the shit.
lennonade1964
I'm really so sad that Darcy's falling so far. but I know when it's stressful staying sober is hard. if he just reaches out to Monroe she can help. she's learning much better how to cope as well. she was so open when she was stuck too. but I together this is something that they can get through.
lennonade1964
it's really good that Monroe's response to that stressing moment was to schedule another appointment with therapy. I think it's a really good show of progress that she's focusing on solutions when she's stressed out and that she talks to herself in a more positive light instead of being negative. that avoiding a rumination it's a really great way for her to build the strength to think more wholesomely. although I'm really worried about Darcy not having responded to her attempts to contact him.
lennonade1964
now we are finally unpacking some of the drama between Darcy and george. it seems like there's more to be told about what's going on between them. although if George is a twin and that means he's as old as Darcy is so he's in a long time to be accountable for his decisions and really the points of finger Darcy for whatever may have happened is kind of unrealistic. also I think it's crazy awkward the situation that happened all of them meaning they have the same time. and I really think it's crazy than Dave had the gall to say Deedee to Darcy's face honestly I would have taken a pickaxe to his face for that. I'm really worried Darcy's about to do something stupid.
lennonade1964
you know for an absentee father he really has a lot of opinions on Monroe's dating life. I really don't think he should be saying anything to her about it. he should just keep the smell of shed and agree to meeting her boyfriend. I think it's incredibly disrespectful to be commenting on her dating life I know he's her parent but really he hasn't been around enough to actually have a say in anything.
lennonade1964
oh man, can Darla just not leave Darcy alone? be touching his phone when he gets a phone call it's like crazy disrespectful to his boundaries. also George is going to be in a heap of trouble he said he was clean and how he is laughing through Vals front door hammered with Dave
lennonade1964
I like that Davis suffering with the idea that she doesn't even care about him anymore. it's a shame that George is going to give him more information and is getting closer with him. it's really rich hearing Dave giving opinion on someone's character when he is the biggest piece of crap ever.
lennonade1964
whatever George did to deserve Darcy's anger I'm really curious to find out. it doesn't seem like they can really get along very well but Darcy seems to have a level head and so I can imagine he has a pretty legitimate reason to be angry with him.
lennonade1964
it's really good that Monroe was able to open up a Darcy about her traumas. it's a real shame that her dad was always drunk all the time it's nice to know that you had a few weeks at a time where he was a good father it's a shame he wasn't like that all the time. hopefully Darcy meeting her dad goes a lot better than when Monroe met Val.
lennonade1964
man, dishing with her friend Mike could be like free therapy they really have wholesome conversations and it seems like Mike really gets her and understands how she thinks it's really good the unreal stuck with therapy because that's going to help her in the long run and I really think she'll make improvements especially avoiding alcohol.
lennonade1964
man, George is incredibly manipulative he played without like a fiddle right now and I honestly don't blame Val for falling for it because obviously she's got Hang-Ups from her family like the nadaing and having a status of class so man George really knew what to say to get her to let him stay there. plus if he wasn't using so to speak why was he drinking alcohol?
lennonade1964
it's good that Darcy was able to recover from that big lie but honestly it makes sense why Monroe would react that way given the fact that she's gone through so much trauma to find a man that's very sweet and honest and for her to experience a lie from him can be a very big deal I imagine
lennonade1964
oh man that is a seriously awkward moment when Monroe cast George but it's really not her fault. oh Darcy is big time and trouble because he lied lied about a whole sibling that is a crazy lie to do.
lennonade1964
every single day that you avoid drinking alcohol is a Day of victory. everyday of sobriety is a day to be proud. so I really think that her younger self would be proud of her for making the change even after 10 years of going through what she went through with Dave. it's worth noting that she's trying and I think that's what's important four days is a great start.
lennonade1964
it is truly sick how Dave thinks about Monroe. I mean, I want to say I can't believe it, but I can believe it. he is nothing short of evil and I fear for Monroe's safety when Dave is around. that poor girl is going to get tossed around like a rag doll by his abusive behavior until he tries to crush Monroe into submission. what a piece of crap!
lennonade1964
oh my God I cringed so hard when I saw Dave squeeze his eyes shut and whine that she's been his girlfriend since they were 17. he looked like such a little boy it was so embarrassing oh my God I can't believe how embarrassing that was for him. he really has no reason to whine and cry he threw her away he can't be sulking and that Kenny guy gets it, Dave is a piece of crap and deserves what he got.
lennonade1964
Monroe really saved herself from an awkward situation by almost dying under the ice there. although I'm curious to see what Darcy would have said if he had more time. plus the straight mixer was a good idea instead of using alcohol.
lennonade1964
Darcy is super awful to have our Darla through that, but I can understand operating in a fashion where you act according to what people expect you to act like. I can see one of those things kind of snowball out of control when you have to be a perfect person and you let things get out of control. it can be a difficult thing to deal with and people kind of get hurt as collateral but you never really intend for them to get hurt.
lennonade1964
it was nice of Darcy to really lay into Val to make her give up the cabin after being so abusive to Monroe. I'm glad that Monroe was able to open up about that instead of hiding it. it's so cool that Darcy is able to open up about his past addictions. it's really sad that he went through those but it's nice that he's able to open up about those experiences and help relate to Monroe a deeper level.
lennonade1964
it's really a shame that trauma had such a negative effect on Monroe. it is true though with therapy she'll be able to grow around it and not have to deal with such pain. at least on not such a deep level. it was really considerate of Darcy don't want to call her a cab. it's good that she gone to therapy and talk to her psychiatrist they are right though she really needs to quit drinking because he mixing medication with alcohol can be very deadly. I really hope she considers getting help with her alcoholism.
lennonade1964
@lennonade1964: to want to call her a cab*
lennonade1964
really Monroe has nothing to worry about I know she has to hang ups about being a midlife crisis but those Hang-Ups about her seeing them as a real couple are just a misunderstanding. her and Darcy get along so well that the only reason why she could feel that way is just from trauma because there's legitimately no reason for her to be worried. Darla although she's only met her in small contacts really is no threat to her whatsoever.
lennonade1964 10 months ago
I don't understand the need for George to think that Darcy is self-righteous just because he doesn't want to have Monroe see him in that state. I don't think he should be doing that, he should be seeing Monroe so she can help him but I have to say it's his decision and honestly he doesn't need to be considered self-righteous just because he's avoiding her seeing that.